You may not need to drive her up a mountain, but I do suggest a quiet place where you can expect privacy for a few hours. There is never a good time, but certainly avoid overly-stressed and tumultuous periods.This is not always possible, however, especially when the issues are connected with your bisexuality.
Not even a year later, that thought has become a reality.eharmony […] Read more Dear Sara: I was single for 10 years before I met my ex, and we were together for two years.Five years later I absolutely love being an out bisexual man: I love being able to flirt with both sexes!It is very very empowering to present oneself authentically – to one’s spouse, friends, and the world at large.I am stronger for it; I present myself wholly; there is very little which rankles me, as I’m not hiding anything.
The need to live authentically is so strong in us that many are willing to risk their lives for it – and many have paid that ultimate price as well, and continue to do so on a daily basis. “She’ll never be able to handle it.” This is the most common refrain I hear from men considering telling their wives they are bisexual – or anyone else who has to come clean about his/her/their sexuality.While there are many things you can do to relieve stress, one aspect that you may not have considered is how creating a mindset of mindfulness may help to navigate the difficulties that all of us inevitably encounter along the way.Eharmony partnered with Stop, Breathe & […] Read more Dear Sara: After a year of going on dozens of so-so dates, I finally met a guy I really liked.I was so tempted to preface my own confession of being a bisexual man with, “Please don’t tell anyone, okay? It means you must be ready for the entire world to know. She’ll probably want to discuss it with someone – a close friend, sibling, whomever. Once I was ready to tell her I was also prepared to face the world.Not that she will tell the entire world you are bisexual, but it is possible. In fact I wanted to tell the whole world I am bisexual.) I figured she’d freak out when she heard, running and screaming from me – although she’d never done anything like that before.