In today’s technology-centric world — where everyone’s phone seems surgically attached to their hand — dating websites and apps are how modern singles find other singles.Normally, this would be a great thing, as technology makes things better.For tips about dating in Jakarta, you can also read this: How to Meet Girls in Jakarta?
Everyone seems to know someone who knows someone who is getting married to their online sweetheart.But after connecting with thousands of women via my Facebook page and hearing their tales of missed dates, mixed messages, and misunderstood expectations, the horror stories seem to outnumber any purported success rate by a very wide margin. Don't we all hear how great the apps and sites are? You answer a few questions and then get to meet someone who is (supposedly) a great match.FHM models, actresses, singers, TV presenters, "selebritis"...If you just arrived in Indonesia as an expat, there are some girls' names that you will hear over and over...She had her boob, lips and nose done, and she looks more like a Californian porn actress more than an Indonesian girl.
By the way, you may think these women are unaccessible? I actually have friends who dated some of these girls.But the questions feeding these algorithms are highly suspect.First, to match someone with a potential mate, these questionnaires must be answered honestly and accurately, and they aren't (more on that coming shortly).I'm not saying it will always work but you should at least give it a try...Check all the best places for clubbing in Jakarta in 2014 here: Jakarta Nightlife Update 2014.And the questions these surveys ask are really about dating, not relationships, and there's a big difference between dating someone today and being compatible for the long term.