Inspired by the likes of Madonna, Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Sam Taylor-Johnson and Brigitte Macron, writer Bibi Lynch is campaigning for the older female without children to be referred to as 'women who are hot, intelligent, and in their prime'.'With cougar the men are prey, WHIPs felt funnier, smarter and sexier,' she explained during an appearance on ITV's This Morning.'Maybe I've been really lucky in the men that have approached me, but they're bright, super successful and funny.'And she believes that her older age means men are not worried that she is looking to have a family.'That is part of the attraction for younger men,' she said.
'It's a winning combination, the pressure is off...
’ Bloody good to be honest – oops, ignore me, just thinking aloud.
I started chatting to a ‘millionaire’ and within three email exchanges he was talking about what a strong connection he felt we had, and how he couldn’t wait to ‘make love to me’ (eurgghh). With a decent fake tan and a push-up bra, I’d wager you could bag yourself a holiday in Barbados every couple of months to boot.
However, there is more to it than a simple cash for sex exchange.
John said: ‘A true SD offers cash but also mentorship, and a SB offers fun inside the bedroom and companionship outside of it.
I wasn’t quite sure if this was a post-modern comment on the randomness of online dating or if he was a victim of early onset dementia. Meanwhile their profiles demanded ‘you will be slim, attractive and available for lunchtime meet-ups’.
Messages from anonymous (aka married) members saying ‘I like going out and staying in, weekends away and holidays in the sun’ were as creative as they came.
Now, thanks to online dating, so-called ‘mutually beneficial’ relationships have never been easier to come by.
I love the idea of Richard Gere bankrolling my shopping trips to Selfridges every weekend, and I can’t see much wrong with two consenting adults agreeing to a relationship that suits them both.
But am I being naive in thinking sugar daddy dating is simply a case of click and collect, or are online arrangements one step away from selling yourself to the highest bidder?
I signed up to where ‘the classy, attractive and affluent meet’.
I began to think that when targeting a man with dough, a girl is best off fishing in a more transparent pool – ie one that does what it says on the tin rather than masquerading as a traditional dating site.