Christian men are getting more and more comfortable attending relationship seminars and getting information about seeking God’s face for a wife.
They are realizing how powerful of an impact a wife has on the outcome of their lives and ministry, and they are spending more time trying to see what is beneath the surface.
Dependability, thriftiness, work ethic, time management, hard work, follow-through and so on.
One of the first things we learn about Ruth for example, was her work ethic. She knew how to pull her hair back, forget about her nails, roll up her sleeves and get on the grind.
In fact, there is a powerful 2 part series on just that HERE: 5.
Good Christian men know their worth too and don’t want to settle either: Yea ladies…men are understanding their worth a bit more too.
So this article is not to list a bunch of reasons why you are at fault for not being married …as if marriage was something you just bought at the store. I respect and care about women’s issues more than there is space to write about here.
Because Girls might get offended or not understand but a mature Christian woman will probably get it and take the knowledge. A woman’s relationship status does not define her, so being single is not a disease or an indication of something “wrong” with her.You are lazy with not much follow-through but you want a man who can stay up all night working on a project.If he put that spotlight on you, would YOU make the cut? They want to make sure he has the “ability to provide”.But right now I wash dishes in Potiphar’s house and I’m a slave boy there” God’s men don’t “always” have a direction or know the details.So stop looking for men who have it all figured out! Here is what you SHOULD be looking for: Men who can be LED by God.Soooo God wants to take us somewhere …but I have no idea where. In fact, I’ve just been anointed King…buuutttt I’m kinda living in the bushes right now and on the run from the King I’m supposed to replace.” Or Joseph.