My friends enjoy that and they tell their friends they did it.
"There was definitely a thing in the back of my head like, ' I can't marry her.' How can I, knowing I can't go to all the places I can go with her?The physicality of it, being painful or whatever, shows how comfortable the girl is with you." Here, he pointedly stops short of romanticizing screwing a woman rectally."You're thinking, ' I don't want to hurt her, and I don't want shit to squirt out at me,'" he says.So if you can't be certain whether the woman's enjoying herself or just submitting to peer pressure, and the act itself can be unpleasant, what's the motivation for demanding it?After the forbidden territory has been conquered, some men find they have psychological issues with the act.
Even Albert, the one who won't tie the knot without a key to the back door, admits that.He doesn't anal sex—especially not if it's a one-time hookup—but he won't commit to a woman who refuses to grant him a backstage pass."I had a girlfriend who I was with for a long time and she wasn't into it," Albert says.But pronouncements and statistics that indicate the rising popularity of rearguard action don't address some nagging questions—the biggest one being how, presuming they haven't had their own rectums messed with, can so many guys justify asking women to let them take the service elevator?Phillip, an engineer in Chicago, says he and his friends request a ride in the back seat because it's a harder-to-reach goal than old-fashioned intercourse."Once a guy has anal sex, he's put on a pedestal by his peers," he says. ' At first they were like, ' No, it will hurt.' Then time after time of having sex with them they finally said okay.